Asking for and giving advice

I was offered a job in another city, and I'm completely in two minds about it. The salary is great, but I'd have to leave everything behind. I called a close friend to talk it through , because I needed to hear my own thoughts out loud. She kept saying the same thing: if I were you , don't rush into anything. I knew I had to weigh up the pros and cons properly before making any decision. Part of m